In most break ups women tend to suffer more. This is because they are more emotional than their male counterparts. They think that the break up was as a result of them not doing something they were supposed to do or as a result of them demanding too much. They therefore can get involved in all activities that they think would remedy the break up. They therefore get engaged in crazy activities which end up pushing their lovers further away. Their boyfriends end up feeling that going through the break up was a good decision. It is therefore good that one learns how to attract men and how to get your ex-boyfriend back.
One way of pulling your man towards you is by learning how men think. This is what is termed as the psychological weapon. This works by acting in contradiction to what men think. It is accomplished by pretending to have erased him from ones mind completely.
A woman should be cleaver enough not act as per the expectation of men. Acting in this manner does not attract them to you. This criterion just acts as a repellant. Acting desperate makes men feel on top of the world but this does not make them feel obligated to get back with you.
When one acts calm after the break up, and moves on with life, then this makes the man feel bad. It makes him feel that he misses to be with you. Acting strong and mature is a good weapon. This makes him come after you. Men are mostly attracted to confident women.
You should also not be too nice and bow down to every one of his whims. This is because by doing so a person seems desperate. Acting too nice also makes the relationship to be too boring. This makes him feel that you are insecure.
It is also good to show him that you have other special people in your life. Most men are mostly attracted to women because of their outward appearances. It is therefore important for one to consider how she looked like when they first met. This is getting your body into the same shape it was in when you met and also dressing up in the same type of clothes you used to in the days he was attracted to you.
One should also know that presentation of flowers or other gifts should only be done as a sign that you like or love the person. It should also be a means to thank a person but not as a means to make them attracted to you. Using gifts to try and win a persons heart makes them feel as you some weakness that you are trying to bury.
When a relationship is broken up your boyfriend could be giving you time to change. However it is good for one to be able to read in between the lines and be able to tell whether her spouse is going to give her a second chance in the relationship or not. It is not good for one to have her hopes high on things that will never take place.